Thanks to some extremely loyal friends all of my world possessions have been successfully relocated to my parents house and are all mostly organized and awaiting unpacking (with the exception of my travel gear). I am currently in VA and working. My schedule throughout July is Mon - Wed (in the office) / Thurs - Fri (telecommute) / Weekends (no work). My goal is to be in PA at least once a week for the next few weeks until I leave for the beach (7/25). I expect to go to PA on after work on Wed for the most part and return here daytime on Sat so I can spend some weekend time with Kat.
I will be in DC for the 4th and then settle into a regular schedule...still not sure where I will be this Sat/Sun as I am waiting on a few things to fall into place.
There is much more to say, but for now, thank you again to those who helped with the move.
Work is proving interesting. I think that it is largely under control, but I wonder how long I will be able to keep pace. I am reining in my new responsibilities in a moderately quick sense considering that I am also setting my normal responsiblities on auto-pilot at the same time. The test will be where I am come January. There are a few bench marks that I will hit at that time. That is also when my original responsibilities all flare up and demand attention due to a variety of annually repeating events. I am looking forward to this, sort of. I keep forgetting that whatever pace that I set will not be a sprint to be looked back upon proudly, but rather must be a steady stride with which I can balance my personal life. This seems to be good training to become an attorney, nonetheless, 8am - 7pm is not the ideal shift. For now, I assume that this week is unique due to vacation and dust settling... On that note, meetings are a strange convention. They must occur, they feel important, and they really just take up a lot of time that could be spent working. I have had several this week that were worth attending, and many that, if not involving various Vice Presidents, I would have left mumbling something about actually have a job to do. I treat those meetings like I treat the company Christmas party, fun distractions that are important for social advancement at work. Funny, in grade school, I imagined that one day it would be merit and quality that determined success, really, it's 70% work and 30% being well liked. Good thing I've got a strong grasp of the concepts of friendly (and somehow inoffensive) office sarcasm and a good shit-eating grin ; )
Personal Life updates:
- My sister-in-law is pregnant again. Due in July-ish.
- I am going to Seattle just after New Years (which will be spent in DC).
- Kat is doing well...I think, she is currently passed out on my bed because I threatened her with physical restraints if she wouldn't sleep for at least 10 minutes.
- Cosi continues to be my greatest release valve. The work isn't bad, I make money, and while I'm there, nothing else really matters.
- Hanukkah this year is strange. I have felt a wierd lack of religion (stability?) of late and have been acting out on this. i felt the compulsion to go out to get a menorah and candles and to say the prayers. I am not happy that this will be on hiatus until I return from Seattle.
- All else is mostly good. My main concerns (as always) are that I am not putting enough effort into seeing my friends in the area and that I am losing touch with people. This will need to be resolved, especially during my vacation...I took off the week of Christmas and will split it between DC and Lansdale pretty equally.
That should suffice for now, if you read this than you have my info, call anytime =)
I am trying to make sure that I post in LJ on a regular basis, but I have to admit that I have been struggling to make time to read and write here. And yes, we all know how much I struggle with reading and writing, and math, and science, and basically all intellectual pursuits. Part of the problem is that I am more concerned with reading what is posted than in posting my own stuff so if I get behind I basically read everyone’s posts to see how their lives are going and then run out of time J
So right now my big focus is on the coming Saturday. I am taking the LSAT and I am strangely looking forward to it. I am nervous, but also excited. I’ve spent so much time working towards this test that I’ve really come to enjoy the subject matter and my daily exercises. I’m actually fairly confident that I will feel a sense of loss when it’s over and I have to move on to the next hurdle for entry into law school; somewhat like you get after a really good movie or perhaps more like the feeling I get when I leave Cosi some nights. I’m tired and very happy to leave, but I still want to be out because I feel more awake and alive than I did beforehand. Then again, maybe it will be more like other nights at Cosi when I leave and can think about nothing other than getting back home to sleep. We shall see.
I also have an apology to anyone reading this in the DC area that I have not spoken to much of late. Basically, things have been hectic and when they haven’t been I’ve been hiding to get rest between the crazy. This will slow down as of this weekend. It won’t end, never does J, but it will slow down. Also, if anyone wants to join me, I think that I’m going to see Stephen Lynch at AU on Sunday with Dudley and Kat. It should be pretty funny. It’s at 9:30pm with $10 tickets. Once things calm down I should be able to get back to more of the hanging out and less of the hiding out J
Things with work are interesting. I seem to be more busy, but not at the same time. This past week or two has been a bit heavy, but I expect things to settle around Oct 10th since some of the special projects will be moving and the day to day tends to be lightest mid month. Next up on the madness-o-matic, write a personal statement, put in for transcript, and then proceed to beg for letters of recommendation. I know one letter should be no problem, one is probably going to be fine, and the third…well I am relieved to know that the professor is still at AU, but I definitely have to take her out for drinks to make sure that she remembers who the hell I am before asking her to write this for me.
Guess that’s it for now. If anyone in the DC area, or otherwise, would like to see Stephen Lynch or just to catch up since I don’t think that I’ve seen anyone that reads this and is on this side of the Atlantic, socially in about a month, please give me a call on the cell. Wow, that sentence was clauses within clauses…I guess I really am ready to become a lawyer.
P.S. – Does anyone know of an LJ notifying software like Google has? That would be really useful.
1. My grandmother, Janice Foxman, died sometime between 11pm 9/6 and 12am 9/7.
2. The funeral is at 2pm Tues (9/11), reception at 6pm at parents house. All are welcome, sorry for late notice.
3. I am home with my parents for the funeral. Have been here since Sat (9/8) and will stay for Rosh Hashana dinner.
4. We're only sitting Shiva for one day due to my brother's flight in and the high holidays. Yet, based on those of us involved, this seems somehow appropriate.
5. My allergies are vaguely under control, sort of, and making me miserable beyond all comprehension. Damn you Lansdale grass, damn you.
6. The past was on my mind before I started looking through old photos, and is even more so now. I feel that I've wandered pretty far abroad from my intended path. Can't just being growing up, if it was, people wouldn't bother.
7. Bought new boots finally and am very happy about these. They have zippers, but hurt to break in.
8. Have not studied for LSATs in days, can't work with my allergies like this.
9. Enjoying the vacation, even if it is bereveavment leave, though I can't wait to get out of my parents house and away from the god damned allergies.
10. Parents seem to be recovering well from car accident, though my mother definitely has some psychological left overs that will be some time in resolving.
Other things are still on my mind and in my head but they won't come out so I will leave it at a nice round ten for now.
This has been a much needed relaxing weekend.
Nowhere to go, nothing in particular to do...bliss. While I should have studied more than I have this weekend, it has really been fantastic. I have been pushing pretty hard lately and this has really been great. I'm also pretty excited that I have some serious time to cook today which means that I am able to try out a recipe for braised pork shanks. While I wasn't able to find the right cut of meat, I'm pretty confident that hocks should do the job and it smells awesome right now :)
My allergies have been giving me some trouble of late so I am trying the nasal spray again, though I'm still a bit wary of it. The last few times that I used it seemed to result in sinus infections, but for the moment there have been no adverse affects. All of this free time has reminded me that I've let most of my hobbies fall by the wayside due to a lack of time, but still, this has been utterly relaxing. I'm also really looking forward to the prospect of going back to school next year as those that I know that are now in grad programs seem to really be happy about it. It does seem intimidating, but in a very positive way and I miss the intellectual stimulation. When left to my own devices I do not tend to put together enough motivation to really keep my studies going, but I think that I'll be okay when I hit lawschool. I'm also noticing that my LSAT studies have really started to take hold. When I talk to people or read their work I am getting more and more proficient at seeing the patterns and knowing where to go next. I've never been an athelete but for me, logic and argument have always been like exercise. Runners get a "runners-high" and I find that I get something that I assume to be similar when in the midst of logical and analyic thinking. I become more awake, more aware, and my mind goes from a lump of gray matter to something much more active that has a very satisfying feeling to it.
All in all, I feel pretty good at the moment. I hope that my allergies remain at bay and that my motivation holds out as I am really excited about the LSATs and these are my two major obstacles that must be kept in sight at all times. I am also more sure with each passing day that want to be a stunt driver :)
My cable (and internet) were under an old roommate’s name and we had been paying the bills, but decided that it was time to cancel and restart to get one of their shiny new deals that Comcast only gives to new people.
What does this say about their customer care? “So, you’ve been a loyal customer for the past 5 years ya say? Well, then please bend over as I’m a little short on cash”…On the other hand, “I’ve never met you before, can I be your friend?” Anyway, this has led to an interesting discovery.
I knew that I used the internet a lot, but it didn’t occur to me just how necessary it was for my general functioning. For instance, and this was the moment I realized it, I pay my rent online. Let me make this clear, I cannot pay rent without access to the internet. My building does have a little room with free internet access and computer, but I don’t really like the idea of logging in and putting my bank information into a public machine. Maybe I’m a bit paranoid, but it just doesn’t sit well with me. My building will accept up to one hand check per apartment, but this is either a giant hassle for the many people living in one place, or you go online. I’ve come to actually like this, the same with service requests, they must be submitted online. If you need something fixed (non-emergency) and you go to the front desk they either write a post-it, which is summarily lost, or they put in an online request.
After this little realization, it occurred to me how much I use the internet as a support tool for life in general. I don’t spend a lot of time there. I post on the journal and check my email, but I don’t spend a lot of time looking around because I don’t tend to have the time. But I realized that without the internet, I wouldn’t pay my bills, know what was happening with the people I care about, or have any idea how to get from point A to point B…
Thank God for office jobs and their free, if occasionally limited, internet…
So, I had an awesome weekend with my family; however, the result was that I was destroyed by the time I got back to DC on Sunday night. I passed the limit of my energy reserves on Saturday and by the time I got to DC my was well past the point of no return for reaching critical mass. I was tired/allergic enough that I ended up sick.
The upside to this was that I got a day off of work on my birthday and slept basically all day before getting taken out to dinner by my usual Monday night dinner crowd. All in all, it was an excellent birthday and I am mostly recovered at this point J
It’s strange. I work a fair amount, but it doesn’t seem like a lot anymore, now it’s just routine. The only time I think about it is when I am not busy. Either I am in very nasty place in my life or too used to being busy. When I’m alone sometimes I just feel like I’m killing time.
I think that its conditioning from school. When you’re a kid its about going from one break to the next and one report card to the next. Then it’s about working towards college. Then it’s about your degree…then…
The problem stems from what I do for a living. I like my job so I can get wrapped up in it, but it is basically meaningless to me. Same deal with my life in general. I get wrapped up in it, but it has no greater significance, it’s not moving towards anything as I am used to doing. So I spend time with people which has meaning for me, but otherwise, I seem to killing time without purpose. It’s very disorienting. Working towards law school helps, and I think that once my apps are in things will be a bit easier. Then I won’t feel like I need to use my time since I will be waiting for the next step. It’s when there are things that I can do to move forward and I am not solely focused on them that I feel like I’m killing time. Shouldn’t I be able to relax without feeling like it was a bad idea or a waste? I worry about this sometimes and about the idea that it may be a by-product of an ambition driven society; therefore affecting many, and that it is not just a personal failing that I can overcome.
The other worry with it being a societal by-product is that there is no end to it. If you chose to function in the society you are stuck with it, if you withdrawal you harm those that care for you. I think that I understand what Kafka was saying in The Trial now in a way that I could not before because when I read it I had not yet become part of the society that I needed to identify with in his work. While I don’t think that things are as bleak as the mood of his works would indicate, I do wander about psychological tension required for human beings to function at peak performance via a “continuous suspension” of one’s case, so to speak.
Just a brief thought. I am seriously a product of my music. Many people listen to music because it fits their mood. While I do this, I think that I more often fit to the mood of my music. I was working on something when I suddenly felt some sort of strange longing as if something was missing. This was mixed with a feeling of sad happiness...At this point I noticed that my internet radio was playing FInd You Gone by Wolfsheim.... =)
Right, recent news has caused a bit of disturbance for me on two counts. First, the subject of internet communities promoting eating disorders and acting as support groups for people that are having trouble starving themselves to death. Let me be clear, these groups are providing their members with emotional support to help them NOT eat. But the background on this has been better laid out and cited by others better than I, for instance:
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Talk about decadence, I thought that hunger was supposed to be the social problem, not too much food or a desire not to eat. I will admit straight out that I am selfish. I want the place I live to have the highest quality of life available, meaning that I want it to be higher than that of others in the world. The same goes for my security, economy, etc. That said, the disparity is still frightening sometimes. While physical and mental disorders occur in both highly developed and highly underdeveloped countries, the idea an
The other thing that disturbs me about this is something I noticed about news publications. I saw this issue getting picked up by some large newspapers and when I logged into LJ, I noticed that the commentary and action was in full swing, and had been…It is weird to see news/coverage in reverse, particularly when you know some of the people doing the commenting. Particularly interesting to me was that I noticed some bloggers that were not the ones taking action themselves responded well before the media picked it up. Keep in mind that “well before” is relative on the internet and therefore was the space of a few hours at most. Still, it’s interesting to watch as the way news media changes. With more and more of us sitting here and writing (some even saying something useful…read: not me =P) it continues to be an interesting factor in the dissemination of information and probably causes some serious headaches for traditional sources of print media, even thought they are all already on the moving and adapting.
I had a critique of certain socio-economic issues facing us today that were on my mind. Then I was tempted to write a quick opinion piece on Nashi (
It must be Wednesday, I never could get the hang of Wednesdays.
I’ve come across a number of self-guided meditation techniques that suggest finding your “happy place” in some form or another. For me, this memory is generally one of Shampoo at an earlier time when:
“As I walk across the parking lot I can hear the music coming from the club and I pick up my pace just a little. Now I’m inside the club buying my ticket and getting my hand stamped. I am having trouble waiting for my change or for Tiny (the 300 lb dude stamping my hand) to finish so that I can go upstairs. As I move up the stairs to the main floor where I can hear one of my favorite songs playing, everything slows down…step…the music is now pulsing in and around me…step…the light is left behind for a moment and darkness washes over me allowing me to relax for the first time since the last time I was here…step…smoke rolls over me, helping to give me a feeling of distance and peace from the chaos only moments away…step…now I can feel my bones beating in time to the music as the vibration carries me…step…strobes flash everywhere and for a brief moment the night is burnt away by dawn for one dizzying instant. In that instant I see faces, some familiar, others new…step…at the top of the stairs I feel completely calm in spite of (and partially because of) the chaos of light, sound, and smoke. The people moving around me are close enough to provide comfort, but the music and darkness makes them far enough away for solitude and peace. I stop to take it all in, and I breathe out…I am home…”
It’s not wonder, but that’s the first word that come to mind. Yeah, I don’t really get that as much anymore. It’s partially because I’m older, a little more tired when I get there, a whole variety of reasons. But it is still a fond memory and a useful meditation technique. The problem is that it tends to provide a feeling of energy rather than a feeling of calm. A serene energy, but energetic nonetheless. It’s funny, because the place still exists, but the time (read: circumstances) are different.
Music seems to have a really strong influence on my emotional and mental state, more than with most people I know. It’s strange to me that other people don’t react to it in the same way. To me it’s almost like hearing someone say that when pushed they don’t feel pressure or a directional force.
I was talking to Emily (one of my servers) today and she told me a horror story regarding the bar last night. The AC was out, and when I say out, I mean all the way. Usually, it’s weak and we get a little warm. I move a lot so I sweat anyway, but from what she said, this is the way it was a long time ago at the other Cosi. The inside was like a sauna and on a day when it’s 100 degrees outside this is worrisome. Potentially worse however was the lack of computers; all of the POS registers were down along with the internet and now one was coming out to fix them during the shift. This means hand written tickets and calculating the tax manually.
At a restaurant that operates without a POS the register thing is doable; however, Cosi is so reliant on it that they had to go to CVS to pickup order pads and servers were using their cell phones to figure out tip. God only knows what life was like for Vicki as she tried to pull this off on register and make drinks. I can only assume that with the AC out EVERYONE wanted To Go which only compounds the trouble.
I am seriously dreading work because, while I assume that that the register system is back up, I doubt that the AC is any better. Also, when something like this happens, the registers tend not to stay up for long. My GM has her hands tied regarding money to fix the AC properly and I can only imagine the issues with the POS. But if corporate wants to make any money they need to let go of the bloody purse strings sometimes and say “get it fixed ASAP.” This is especially true in the kind of location that we have with very high maintenance customers. We are one of the highest profit stores in the region, but because Cosi contracts out all repairs (without much price negotiation from what I understand) they are extremely reluctant to fix anything or to pay for the little things like, oh I don’t know…working coffee grinders? This has been getting worse and worse but now it is simply ridiculous.
I feel like any place I work deteriorates like this over time as I stay there. I don’t know if this is a general view of things that occurs as you get used to a place or just bad luck, but all I can think is May God have mercy on any firm that I join after law school.
Sorry for the confusion before, but something was tugging at me saying "Hey, you wrote this without a mental filter to include your potential players!" and so I knew that I had to review it first. Feel free to read what little there is and enjoy.
Anyone else, if I post anything game related here it will only be visible to the Lansdale folks. If anyone else wants access to it let me know and I will adjust. I would definitely love suggestions and when the time starts, general commentary, but only in forums that the players can't read.
Thought of the Day: “It is very confusing when you eat asparagus in something that has it sneakily concealed because you don’t find out until later when you pee…”
Wow, suddenly life got busy again for a minute. I’ve been meaning to post about the past weekend since Monday but things in the office have been pretty hectic so actual work had to been done. It’s like they think of me as an employee or something. My receptionist’s last day was yesterday and this meant a whole load of things get redistributed to the people that she was doing them for, myself included. Combine that with my usual 1st of the month shit storm and a priority one meeting with the VP about a potential claim and you have the makings for an interesting few days. Did I mention the new employee that just transferred to this division? Yeah, been putting in time with him as well to help smooth the orientation and get a few things done that we have been holding off on until he and I could talk face to face. The orientation wasn’t really my job, but I know my office well and its one of those things that we are not always up on so I wanted to make sure that he had someone to ask when he had questions.
But yeah, this last weekend was excellent. Mike’s wedding was a really good chance to get to see everyone and have us all in one place where most of us only had not responsibilities except show up on time and have fun. It’s rare, but really good to get a chance to see Goat and Kamin. I had no idea that Mike was thinking of moving back to
Getting back also wasn’t as bad as I thought. I was getting a bit tired by 2:15am, but at about 2:45 I got a second wind. It was as if drinking water kicked some of the Monster that I thought had worn off, back into gear. By the time I walked into my apartment (3:30am) I was ready to go back out and have fun. I had to try pretty hard to fall asleep so that I could get into the office the next day. This leads me to the belief that my vacations should be replaced by a very specific combination of beer, gin, Monster, and long driving.
The LSAT studying is still going well, my one concern is that I want more practice than the current book is giving to me. This is partially because that helps me a lot, and partially because I really enjoy the games. The extra tests that I picked up are good, but they don’t have the detailed explanations of the book so once those are used up it will just be me and the test. I also worry a bit about how much time is left to study and practice before the exam. There is a lot of time, but not a lot of free time…still it will get done. I will have to push pretty hard to switch gears to my personal statement right after. This thing is a bit more of a monster than I realized. I also need to start firming up my letters of recommendation and to get AU to send my transcripts. I am not really worried about my performance, but the things that I have to rely on others for makes me nervous. AU bureaucracy like any other machine could take longer than expected to get the transcript out, but more scary are the letters. I need to know what to tell people is required before we talk and this takes research I don’t have time for yet. And once I request the letters, I can’t really rush them because I need to not piss off the people that I am coming to for recommendations.
Still, it will be as it must, I just need to keep moving and not worry so much.
For now, back to work and my quote of the day:
“But YouTube, said it did not employ anyone to police what is posted. The site, which is owned by Google, claims pre-screening content is a form of censorship which is not the role of a private company.”
- BBC News Web child fight videos criticized posted 7/29/07
- http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/69208
So, it’s not the job of private firms to police themselves, though some hire security guards as a matter of preference. While I don’t see it coming any time soon, are comments like this the precursor to a tax placed on sharing sites? Can you tax sites outside of you country? Can you block sites from outside of your taxable influence? Just a thought as the internet continues to be a potential source of economic and social evolution through forced integration.
So I read for about 7 hours straight on Sunday because I wanted to finish the book I was reading. I’m pretty sure that this confused my roommate because he would pop in every once in awhile to see if I wanted to join him and the girlfriend for food, or going out, and then just to check and see “what’s the good word.” I felt kinda bad about it because I think that he has been making an effort to hangout lately but I have been running about like a madman. The reason that I mention the book is that there were two reasons for this. The first, more normal reason, was that I wanted to finish it because I was enjoying it and wanted some resolution (which didn’t occur). The second reason was to remove the last major distraction from my studying for the LSATs. I found that the only thing that stopped me from doing work was reading for the most part. This cost me a number of lunches and evenings that I could have been reading or practicing for the test. I’m not saying that relaxing isn’t good, but I’ve put a really good dent in the TV habit so I had to finish the book and move on.
Now, just when I think I’m in the clear and will avoid a lot of distractions I see great danger on the horizon. With the departures of Justin and Lisa my usual gaming crew for DC is down to me and 2 others. This coupled with the fact that they are moving is not a happy prospect. I am happy for both and Justin will only be 3 hours away, but I have most definitely learned enough by now to fear the effects of such distances on friendships and the ability to keep in touch despite the best of intentions. I am hopeful but I will still miss their company. As I told Lisa, she is crazy beyond imaging and sometimes frustrates and I will sincerely miss both of those qualities among a number of others when she is in
The new distraction and the original reason for this post: I think that I may be running game in the near future. More importantly, my mind has started to move towards this idea at just the right/wrong time. Sonja and Bridget both want to continue gaming and think that they may have some good candidates for more players. Since I have just finished with the books that I was reading my brain is still in story mode. And due to my natural propensity for procrastination my mind sees work and runs to the nearest distract…planning game.
I’m thinking that if I run game it will be in a couple of months, after the LSATs and maybe after my apps are in, but I probably can’t wait that long for a variety of reasons. I’m thinking of running new Wolf. I love Werewolf, but I am not going to be satisfied with most things that I run from 2nd edition. For one, the world is a world that I knew and loved through the eyes of an adolescent and which has been hard pressed to maintain the same luster as I grow and mature. Second, I find that there is too much cannon for me to be able to bring in new players. I get too caught up in the details which are not relevant to my story or my players and this causes slow down and deficiencies in other places. I also find that I have grown accustomed to 3rd edition rules, don’t know if that’s good or not, but at this point, I can gauge them better and that will mean a lot in game creation and mechanics. Also, new Wolf has a fresh feel and I think that it will provide some interesting opportunities. I find it funny that WW seems to be putting out books to match the cadence of my life. 2nd Ed. Wolf was strong when I was the right age, and now that I am getting old enough for it to be problematic, they provide something new. I will have trouble letting go, but I am looking forward to the new possibilities.
All this to say, when I do run game, I plan on posting here in poor imitation of what Justin did with Orpheus. I don’t know if I will try hijack his TV theme, but I may. The reason that I will post is to keep my thoughts on target, but also because the people that I know on LJ are mostly my gamer friends from one place or another, so I will definitely be looking for input. That said, I am getting some ideas for a 1 -2 shot to test out if the players like Wolf and as a potential lead into the larger game. Any suggestions are certain welcome and at this point, solicited.
Game won’t happen for a while, but I am slow at story crafting so that may be for the best.
It's when you decide you want something that is concrete and visible that things become more interesting. I still don't know if it's scary or just exciting, either way...this is definitely getting interesting.
So Brian and I were speaking about Mike's wedding and discussing places to stay. We got it down to the following:
The hostel south of the city ($22/person/night); or,
Comfort Inn north of the city(I think mid 60's/room/night)
I vote Comfort Inn, while I do like the price and dorm style setup of the Hostel the down side are that it's a per person rate and that it is on the other side of the city from the Wedding/reception. The wedding is in "North" Park and the Hostel is south of the city. Whereas the comfort in with 2 or more to a room isn't much more than the hostel and is about 5 - 15minutes from teh location of said wedding.
Bob, Sarah, Brian, Sandi....thoughts? Mike, care to weigh in? Rick, where are you staying?
It's not generally my style to use an outlet like this to start commenting on current affairs issues, but I was reading the news this morning and find that I am more and more disturbed by certain trends. I read an article in the International Herald Tribune and really felt that I wanted to discuss it with someone or at least voice an opinion on the matter.
The article, published 6/21, was regarding the current tension in Britain surrounding muslim women in full veil (head to toe, called the niqab. It was explaining that, while a very small minority, more women have been wearing the niqab and have been receiving quite a hard time about it. The article references journalists calling the full veil "directly offensive" and instances of students and teachers be sent home from school because they were wearing the veil. It also talks about experiences that individuals have had of people on the street making demeaning or just mean comments.
While I do understand that Islam has taken on a high profile and that people say and do things they shouldn't with or without thinking, I am a bit disturbed when I read "A student who was barred from wearing a niqab took her case to the courts, and lost. In fact, the British education authorities are proposing a ban on the niqab in schools altogether." When the law begins to make changes to accomodate this kind of prejudice and small mindedness I become trully afraid.
While it is not part of my faith or belief structure, I see no reason that someone should not be allowed to were this garment. Jews are allowed to wear a kipah, christians are allowed the crucifix, and for the most part, religious and secular groups in general wear what they chose for the reasons that they choose. As long as the choice is not an expression of profanity what right does a court system have to ban it? Islam is like any other religion or group of people; it is made up of a variety of individuals, some are violent, some peaceful, some fanatics, some who provide only lipservice and plenty in between. Yes, it is more high profile right now; yes, the head to toe veil is noticable and for some it is associated with ideas that they find demeaning to women. But it is a choice to wear it, and I am sure that there are many people that do not see it as demeaning, but rather as a symbol of their faith and solidarity.
Perhaps I don't understand the full social implacations. Perhaps while following the news, this particular article caught me at the wrong time on the wrong day. Perhaps I have no business commenting as I am not British nor am I Muslim. Nonetheless, it worries me as I see more and more of what looks like people reacting with fear and isolating others that mean them no harm. Making enemies out of friends will never harm those that were your enemies to begin with. Bridges are not built with walls and right now especially, further isolation of devote Muslims in western communities will only cause trouble and give ammunition to those that hate us.
Right, sorry for that. I will try to keep the soap box to myself as much as possibe.
